Warning Signs to Look Out for When Choosing a Gynecologist

Searching for a new healthcare provider, especially a gynecologist, can be a daunting task, given the intimate nature of the exams. To ensure you're in good hands, be aware of certain red flags that could signal it's time to find a better match.

They don’t explain procedures beforehand.

A gynecologist should always inform you about what they're going to do during an exam as part of informed consent. If they proceed without explanation or dismiss your requests for information, that's a red flag.

Poor bedside manner and dismissing concerns.

Trust and respect are essential in a patient-doctor relationship. If your gynecologist minimizes your questions or experiences, it's a sign that they may not be the right fit.

Making assumptions about your sexual activity or partners.

Inclusivity is key in healthcare. A gynecologist who makes assumptions about the gender of your partners or your sexual orientation, or who misgenders you, may not provide the comprehensive care you need.

Disorganization and negligence.

While some disorganization can be expected, consistently lost paperwork or inaccurate medical records are serious concerns that could affect your healthcare.

Discriminatory behavior.

Any form of racism, ableism, fatphobia, or other discrimination in the medical field is unacceptable and can lead to subpar treatment and care.

Letting personal beliefs interfere with care.

A gynecologist's personal beliefs should never prevent them from providing unbiased, nonjudgmental information and care regarding your sexual and reproductive health.

The most important thing is that you feel safe and respected in your OB-GYN's office. If you don't, consider these warning signs as prompts to look for a new doctor who can better meet your needs.