Optimal Positions for Achieving Orgasm

Imagine a familiar scene: it's late, your partner suggests sex with the usual 'Let's have sex,' and it ends with the predictable, 'Did you come?' Not the most arousing scenario. But perhaps it's time to rethink your approach and concentrate on what pleasures you. If you're unsure, why not try taking the lead? One timeless suggestion: the cowgirl position. Here's why it could work wonders for you.

• You control the movements, allowing for a variety of actions beyond the usual up and down—think grinding and other creative motions.
• You get to enjoy the view, not just for your partner's pleasure but for your own visual stimulation as well, with options like the lotus position.
• You set the pace, deciding how fast or slow to go, channeling Lizzo's love for tempo that suits your mood.

The Moves

Pelvic Tilts

Unfamiliar with pelvic tilts? They involve arching and relaxing your pelvis during sex, stimulating the clitoral network for enhanced arousal and orgasm. Incorporating a c-ring can add to the experience, providing both internal and external stimulation.

Pelvic Circles

Adding to your repertoire, pelvic circles involve moving your hips in circular motions while seated. They stimulate internally and add a visual element to your movements. Feel free to switch directions or even spell out different patterns to discover what feels best.

Equipped with these ideas, you're ready to experiment and inject new excitement into your bedroom experiences. Since 1993, we've been advocating for women's sexual wellness, aiming to bridge the orgasm gap and empower your sexual confidence. You deserve this exploration and pleasure.