Welcome to sexy ways
Welcome to sexy ways
When you think of temperature play, ice cubes and hot candle wax might spring to mind. However, ice can be too cold for some, and regular candle wax can be dangerously hot. Fortunately, temperature play offers a wide range of possibilities for those looking to spice up their intimate moments.
Before diving into temperature play, it's crucial to talk with your partner about preferences and limits. This conversation promotes safety and trust, allowing for adjustments to be made according to each partner's comfort level.
Begin with subtle temperature variations, such as using breath or cupping the genitals with your hand to introduce warmth. These gentle methods help gauge reactions and preferences.
Explore sensations using household items like metal spoons or shatterproof glass, which can be warmed or cooled. These can provide a range of pleasurable experiences without the risk of injury.
Metal objects can be easily tempered with heat or cold to create contrasting sensations on the skin, but they should never be microwaved.
Glass, particularly borosilicate, can also be used for temperature play due to its ability to withstand various temperatures without breaking.
Specialized warming and cooling lubricants, as well as massage candles with lower melting points, can enhance temperature play. However, be cautious with heat and remember that oil-based products can degrade latex barriers.
Always test temperatures before applying them to sensitive areas to avoid burns or numbness. Maintain open communication with your partner during play.
Incorporate temperature play into bondage or oral activities, alternating between hot and cold sensations to increase sensitivity and pleasure. Full-body experiences like a hot shower before intimacy can also heighten sensations.
Enjoy the process of exploring temperature play, focusing on the journey of pleasure rather than just the destination. Remember, it's okay to not enjoy everything, and prioritizing safety and enjoyment is paramount.